"3 Minute" technique for getting a woman's number and/or email.
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One of the top questions I get asked is how to get a woman's info (email, phone #, etc) and then follow up.
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"3 Minute" technique for getting a woman's number and/or email.
Anyway, once upon a time, I very WRONGLY imagined that it was impossible to walk up to a woman who was a complete stranger and have her just give her number to me.
So what did I do instead?
I started investigating lots of different kinds of tricks and techniques, from palmistry to handwriting analysis... and all kinds of other freaky, pseudo-clever, mostly embarrassing ideas.
I figured that I had to somehow "distract" a woman from the fact that I was interested and wanted her number!
The truth is, its easy. Its simple. and YOU - yes, YOU, can do this.
Ok, so, imagine this scenario. You have found a girl you like and chatted her up for a few minutes.
Then, instead of hanging around and waiting to get awkward, you LEAVE.
Tell her, “Well, it was nice meeting you. I’m going to get back to my friends.” (Or whatever you were doing or COULD be doing.) They usually don’t know what to do, as they’re used to guys clinging. Then, just as I was turning to walk away… and we’d kind of disconnect… I’d turn back and say, “Hey, do you have email?”
If they said ‘yes’, I’d take out a pen and paper and have them write it down or add it into your phone. (This is great, as I just treated the ‘yes’ that they gave me as a ‘yes’ to get it from them as well.And they’ve ALL gone along with it so far.)
Then I’d say, “Write your number down there too.” (Or if you are putting it in your phone, just say "And your number...?" I won’t go into all of it, but this move is a powerhouse. When you ask for email, it’s very low risk for them… so they think, “Fine, I’ll do that”… and then when they’re already writing, I’d get the phone number too… which is more natural. If they said no, then I’d bust on them and say, “Well, do you have electricity?” Then I’d say, “Well, OK then… I like e-mail better, but I’ll take your regular phone number… it’s so damn hard to reach people on the phone these days.”
I hope you get what just happened… OK, then, as they’re writing I’d say, “Is this a number that you actually answer?” If not, then I’d say, “Look, write your real number down… it’s going to be OK… I’ll only call you nine times a day.” They’d laugh and give me their real number.
Turning away, then turning back, basically demonstrates to a woman that you're OK with walking away without getting her number... which is a good exercise if you're at the stage where you get nervous asking for a woman's number/email.
Feel free to just say, "Do you have email?" and then, "Great, write it down... I want to talk to you again" etc.
As long as you are cool and calm with all of your other communication, you'll be fine.
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If you want more AWESOME tips like this one found on page #123 of the Double Your Dating eBook, click this link to download it now.
DOWNLOAD NOW
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And by the way, guys, WOMEN OF ALL AGES LOVE THIS STUFF.
It doesn't skew towards ANY type of women.
I used to flirt with every woman I met... of every age.
They ALL loved it.
And I get emails from guys of all ages who use this stuff to meet women of all ages... with HUGE RESULTS.
Now, to be fair, from time to time I do get an email from someone who says "It sounds to me like you're suggesting to men that they act like jerks", etc.
What does this tell me? It tells me that guys like that are just not familiar with David's materials, and they just don't get it.
This isn't about making women feel BAD...
It's about making them feel GOOD!
Using tools like attention or attention getting techniques, or techniques to disarm a woman a little bit so you can get past her barriers are not ever designed to bring a woman harm. Use these techniques to get her attention and start the process of getting to know her. It may be the best thing that you will ever do for both you AND her.
CHECK OUT DAVID D'S EBOOK NOW!
Your friend,
John C
One of the top questions I get asked is how to get a woman's info (email, phone #, etc) and then follow up.
...
"3 Minute" technique for getting a woman's number and/or email.
Anyway, once upon a time, I very WRONGLY imagined that it was impossible to walk up to a woman who was a complete stranger and have her just give her number to me.
So what did I do instead?
I started investigating lots of different kinds of tricks and techniques, from palmistry to handwriting analysis... and all kinds of other freaky, pseudo-clever, mostly embarrassing ideas.
I figured that I had to somehow "distract" a woman from the fact that I was interested and wanted her number!
The truth is, its easy. Its simple. and YOU - yes, YOU, can do this.
Ok, so, imagine this scenario. You have found a girl you like and chatted her up for a few minutes.
Then, instead of hanging around and waiting to get awkward, you LEAVE.
Tell her, “Well, it was nice meeting you. I’m going to get back to my friends.” (Or whatever you were doing or COULD be doing.) They usually don’t know what to do, as they’re used to guys clinging. Then, just as I was turning to walk away… and we’d kind of disconnect… I’d turn back and say, “Hey, do you have email?”
If they said ‘yes’, I’d take out a pen and paper and have them write it down or add it into your phone. (This is great, as I just treated the ‘yes’ that they gave me as a ‘yes’ to get it from them as well.And they’ve ALL gone along with it so far.)
Then I’d say, “Write your number down there too.” (Or if you are putting it in your phone, just say "And your number...?" I won’t go into all of it, but this move is a powerhouse. When you ask for email, it’s very low risk for them… so they think, “Fine, I’ll do that”… and then when they’re already writing, I’d get the phone number too… which is more natural. If they said no, then I’d bust on them and say, “Well, do you have electricity?” Then I’d say, “Well, OK then… I like e-mail better, but I’ll take your regular phone number… it’s so damn hard to reach people on the phone these days.”
I hope you get what just happened… OK, then, as they’re writing I’d say, “Is this a number that you actually answer?” If not, then I’d say, “Look, write your real number down… it’s going to be OK… I’ll only call you nine times a day.” They’d laugh and give me their real number.
Turning away, then turning back, basically demonstrates to a woman that you're OK with walking away without getting her number... which is a good exercise if you're at the stage where you get nervous asking for a woman's number/email.
Feel free to just say, "Do you have email?" and then, "Great, write it down... I want to talk to you again" etc.
As long as you are cool and calm with all of your other communication, you'll be fine.
*******************
If you want more AWESOME tips like this one found on page #123 of the Double Your Dating eBook, click this link to download it now.
DOWNLOAD NOW
*******************
And by the way, guys, WOMEN OF ALL AGES LOVE THIS STUFF.
It doesn't skew towards ANY type of women.
I used to flirt with every woman I met... of every age.
They ALL loved it.
And I get emails from guys of all ages who use this stuff to meet women of all ages... with HUGE RESULTS.
Now, to be fair, from time to time I do get an email from someone who says "It sounds to me like you're suggesting to men that they act like jerks", etc.
What does this tell me? It tells me that guys like that are just not familiar with David's materials, and they just don't get it.
This isn't about making women feel BAD...
It's about making them feel GOOD!
Using tools like attention or attention getting techniques, or techniques to disarm a woman a little bit so you can get past her barriers are not ever designed to bring a woman harm. Use these techniques to get her attention and start the process of getting to know her. It may be the best thing that you will ever do for both you AND her.
CHECK OUT DAVID D'S EBOOK NOW!
Your friend,
John C
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